Day 36 How babies eat without knowing how (Apeldoorn, Holland)

My now 11-month old nephew is so cute I call him several names--Kung Fu Panda, Garfield, any Japanese-looking cartoon character, Mr. Shooli, Gangnam....

One time, I called him a piggy bank.

I know these are nasty comments, but he's just too adorable to let pass the chance for my mind to think of who else looks like him.

A baby's day can be so productive: wake up at 7am, eat mashed carrots et al for breakfast, nap, eat snacks, play on the floor sucking up his toys, eat lunch, change diaper, nap, bread sticks or rice biscuits for snacks, play, watch ABCs and eensy wincey spider went up the water spout, nap again, eat dinner, climb up his parents' or auntie's arms, sleep.

Babies eat without knowing how. They survive or simply live (as "survive" makes life seem like a tragedy) each day without knowing how. They sleep peacefully and wake up to oxygen and sweet sounds and ground underneath and food cooking up in the kitchen. They play and toddle and watch nursery rhymes nonchalantly and get dressed regularly, all without knowing how. It always reminds me of a favorite Bible verse about the birds and the animals and how they're taken care of; much more shouldn't human beings worry about their every day provisions because, we're just like the birds and the bees and the flowers and the trees--we get fed, clothed, provided for, taken care of, presented opportunities, given choices, freedom, speech, air to breathe, people to talk to and live with, sources of happiness like the chirping birds and flowers to smell and trees to lie underneath, and the solid ground we walk on, and the smiles that welcome us, and love that keeps us healthy, the chairs to sit on, the radio to sing along with, even a little luxury from time to time like a good friend who listens or officemates who remember to invite you to their Christmas gift-giving even if they're sure you can't join them, parents who pray for your safety, and girlfriends who ask about your lovelife even if they know they'd get the same reply.

There are always a lot of things to be thankful for, as cliche as it may sound. Due to the limited space here, let me just generalize it and say, "Thank You, Universe."  Credit goes to someone I used to look up to as a mentor, who passed on last year, and whose own reflections were noted down in his blogsite called my so called mid-life angst. I learned that universal phrase from him.

Today, I am thankful that there is a sub-yaya, in the persona of an aunt, and that I can have a little more me-time here. I should be able to blog a little more and hopefully write a little better. A friend of mine recently asked me why I don't write like I used to. I refused to admit it of course, until I re-read the posts in my previous blog called penville and true enough it seemed I was then more romantic, more reflective, or should I just say, an introvert? Much to my dismay, I succumbed to my friend's observation and admitted I have changed....

It reminds me of a study pointed out by Creativity expert Ken Robinson on how seemingly our education system is so behind so much so that the classroom set-up of children alone trains them for the jobs in the industrial era, not of the information age. It's disturbing to know that the study presents an inverse relationship between children's schooling and creativity. The higher they go up the school system, the more diminished their creativity becomes. That doesn't help me a bit about any future plans I may have of taking further education.

I hope my nephew grows up more creative than logical, more gentle than right, more kind than good-looking.

If I was more creative myself, I'm sure I can think of hundred more names to call him by. #

"...we get fed, clothed, provided for, taken care of, presented opportunities, given choices, freedom, speech, air to breathe, people to talk to and live with, sources of happiness like the chirping birds and flowers to smell and trees to lie underneath, and the solid ground we walk on, and the smiles that welcome us, and love that keeps us healthy, the chairs to sit on, the radio to sing along with..."